Comments on: Amal: the bitter hope http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/ Tue, 06 Jan 2009 13:36:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: Nimir(bel 3arabee Tiger) http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-637 Nimir(bel 3arabee Tiger) Mon, 07 May 2007 21:52:40 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-637 well it seems like a local emariti girl story... see UAE ppl r good bas in society wise they have major major problems one of them is this one ...the others can vary between drugs,drunk fathers,adultury and no real family care...some people envy them for the money they have but they dont know how much their lives r away from happiness well it seems like a local emariti girl story…

see UAE ppl r good bas in society wise they have major major problems one of them is this one …the others can vary between drugs,drunk fathers,adultury and no real family care…some people envy them for the money they have but they dont know how much their lives r away from happiness

]]> By: Who-sane http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-638 Who-sane Mon, 07 May 2007 21:57:49 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-638 Yes Nimir, you're right ... it is a true and sad story of an Emirati girl, and this is but one of the social problems UAE women face in their daily lives. Yes Nimir, you’re right … it is a true and sad story of an Emirati girl, and this is but one of the social problems UAE women face in their daily lives.

]]> By: Mohanned http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-639 Mohanned Tue, 08 May 2007 02:24:39 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-639 That is just bull shit!!and they wonder why adultry is increasing!!If two people want to get married nothing should stop them except god, not parents not anyone!!This is bull!! That is just bull shit!!and they wonder why adultry is increasing!!If two people want to get married nothing should stop them except god, not parents not anyone!!This is bull!!

]]> By: Mariam Ayyash http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-640 Mariam Ayyash Tue, 08 May 2007 07:14:01 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-640 what did she do to fight this? u know it bites sometimes i want to help and dont know how, maybe a letter to her father reminding him of his religion, maybe a letter of recomendation of the kid :) or maybe a letter to her relatives to talk to her parents about it, may be a local center that cares for woman issue? no? those parents are either poor they dont have a television and they never heard a sheikh saying 7aram 3alieko or read in the magazines all about it, or they DUMB and choose to shut their inputs, shoo hal 3alam el 6arma! what did she do to fight this? u know it bites sometimes i want to help and dont know how, maybe a letter to her father reminding him of his religion, maybe a letter of recomendation of the kid :) or maybe a letter to her relatives to talk to her parents about it, may be a local center that cares for woman issue? no? those parents are either poor they dont have a television and they never heard a sheikh saying 7aram 3alieko or read in the magazines all about it, or they DUMB and choose to shut their inputs, shoo hal 3alam el 6arma!

]]> By: Oriental Arabesque http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-641 Oriental Arabesque Tue, 08 May 2007 09:45:09 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-641 that's a typical story in this society they exaggerate a lot when it comes to marriage expenses. I swear the amount of money wasted on one wedding, including the dowry, clothes and bride’s gold could feed a small poor country in Africa. Of course it’s a purely social habit and has nothing to do with Islam! but i think she have to try more with her parents that’s a typical story in this society

they exaggerate a lot when it comes to marriage expenses. I swear the amount of money wasted on one wedding, including the dowry, clothes and bride’s gold could feed a small poor country in Africa. Of course it’s a purely social habit and has nothing to do with Islam!

but i think she have to try more with her parents

]]> By: sam http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-642 sam Tue, 08 May 2007 10:36:21 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-642 wow that is sad! poor Amal...sometimes you think we are way beyond that ignorant money obsession. bas people are always proving that there is no end to it. very sad indeed! wow that is sad! poor Amal…sometimes you think we are way beyond that ignorant money obsession. bas people are always proving that there is no end to it. very sad indeed!

]]> By: Verbal Alchemy http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-644 Verbal Alchemy Tue, 08 May 2007 11:55:49 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-644 not exclusively an emarati story.. we all have these types of stories in our societies lil asaf.. true il nesbeh hon aktar but still u wud hear of pali/jor/leb/syr girls being wed to really rich ppl whom they cant even share one opinion with just for the sake of having a "guaranteed" future. pun intended. id say she shud fight for whats rightfully hers.. happiness. not exclusively an emarati story.. we all have these types of stories in our societies lil asaf.. true il nesbeh hon aktar but still u wud hear of pali/jor/leb/syr girls being wed to really rich ppl whom they cant even share one opinion with just for the sake of having a “guaranteed” future. pun intended.

id say she shud fight for whats rightfully hers.. happiness.

]]> By: Who-sane http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-645 Who-sane Tue, 08 May 2007 19:35:30 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-645 Ghrab: yeah, it's utter nonsense! Mariam: She probably had a fight with her parents, but what's she to do? elope? they'll most probably disown her. And by the way, her parents are not poor at all. Oriental Arabesque: indeed, the money wasted on weddings is too much! Sam: yes, it's so sad to see this is still going on in our region :( Verbal Alchemy: it's not exclusive for one nation, you'll find such stories all around the world ... Ghrab: yeah, it’s utter nonsense!

Mariam: She probably had a fight with her parents, but what’s she to do? elope? they’ll most probably disown her. And by the way, her parents are not poor at all.

Oriental Arabesque: indeed, the money wasted on weddings is too much!

Sam: yes, it’s so sad to see this is still going on in our region :(

Verbal Alchemy: it’s not exclusive for one nation, you’ll find such stories all around the world …

]]> By: Mariam Ayyash http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-646 Mariam Ayyash Tue, 08 May 2007 20:48:18 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-646 then find an article on the web about this issue (with maybe islamic reference) print and mail... ;) who knows! maybe an outsider can tap better on their hearts than their daughter (whom should NEVER elope, not because her parents would disown her, but she would lose her guy's respect) then find an article on the web about this issue (with maybe islamic reference) print and mail… ;) who knows! maybe an outsider can tap better on their hearts than their daughter (whom should NEVER elope, not because her parents would disown her, but she would lose her guy’s respect)

]]> By: Mazz http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-647 Mazz Tue, 08 May 2007 22:36:09 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-647 okay, that's just effin' idiotic! i mean, i seriously don't get it! leish il fashkhara? howwe ma fi 7ada khallaf banat gheiro? for crying out loud, i mean,my uncle, "a friggin' multi-millionaire" whom i'm not exactly fond of due to his capitalist behavior sometimes, only asked for 5000 JDs. which is FAIR. why does some idiot numb skull think that his daughter is worth MONEY? friggin' STUPID and insulting and degrading to women and himself. a brick probably has more brain cells than he does. i'd elope if i were in their shoes! okay, that’s just effin’ idiotic!
i mean, i seriously don’t get it! leish il fashkhara? howwe ma fi 7ada khallaf banat gheiro? for crying out loud, i mean,my uncle, “a friggin’ multi-millionaire” whom i’m not exactly fond of due to his capitalist behavior sometimes, only asked for 5000 JDs. which is FAIR. why does some idiot numb skull think that his daughter is worth MONEY? friggin’ STUPID and insulting and degrading to women and himself. a brick probably has more brain cells than he does.
i’d elope if i were in their shoes!

]]> By: Mrs Al Ramahi http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-648 Mrs Al Ramahi Wed, 09 May 2007 06:52:52 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-648 At first i thought you were writing about me :cool: (my name is AMAL too :)even the character seemed like me..lol.. without the last sad part.. Well it is sad that people still do that.. may parents always told me, never look at the money, look at the person who will share your life with.. money will never make a person, a person makes them.. I feel sorry for the young guys who want to get married and life's costly matters doesnt allow them to..the prices are getting higher and everything is expensive.. Allah ye3een el shabab.. and girls and their parents have to be understanding, if the couple want each other, money should not be the first consideration.. InshaAllah ahelha beghayro ra2yehum.. At first i thought you were writing about me :cool: (my name is AMAL too :)even the character seemed like me..lol.. without the last sad part..

Well it is sad that people still do that.. may parents always told me, never look at the money, look at the person who will share your life with.. money will never make a person, a person makes them..

I feel sorry for the young guys who want to get married and life’s costly matters doesnt allow them to..the prices are getting higher and everything is expensive.. Allah ye3een el shabab.. and girls and their parents have to be understanding, if the couple want each other, money should not be the first consideration.. InshaAllah ahelha beghayro ra2yehum..

]]> By: Na3ouri http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-649 Na3ouri Wed, 09 May 2007 09:31:42 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-649 المشكلة عند نسبة مش قليلة من الاهل انهم بفكروا البنت عبارة عن سلعة و يلي بدفع اكثر مفروض هو يلي يربح هالسلعة بغض النظر عاشت البنت مرتاحة او رجعت لبيت اهلها مكسورة الجناح لا سمح الله انا بعرف انو اغلى اشي عند الاب و الام هو الاولاد لكن مش لدرجة تحويلهم لسلعة و عدم الاكتراث لمشاعرهم بحجة انو هما راح يختارولها الافضل و انها ما بتفهم بهيك مواضيع طبعاً كل ما اسمع موضوع بيحكي عن المهر بحكي الحمدلله الي ما عنا من هالحكي ، و انا هون بقصد الشركس و عشان التوضيح اكثر فإحنا المهر و المؤخر عنا محدد مسبقاً من الجمعية الشركسية ، يعني المهر عنا 150 دينار فقط لا غير و يلي بطلب اكثر من هيك بيلتعن اساسه و المؤخر 300 دينار و مع هيك برجع بحكي الحمدلله امورنا ماشية و ما عنا نسب طلاق عالية الحمدلله المشكلة عند نسبة مش قليلة من الاهل انهم بفكروا البنت عبارة عن سلعة و يلي بدفع اكثر مفروض هو يلي يربح هالسلعة بغض النظر عاشت البنت مرتاحة او رجعت لبيت اهلها مكسورة الجناح لا سمح الله

انا بعرف انو اغلى اشي عند الاب و الام هو الاولاد لكن مش لدرجة تحويلهم لسلعة و عدم الاكتراث لمشاعرهم بحجة انو هما راح يختارولها الافضل و انها ما بتفهم بهيك مواضيع

طبعاً كل ما اسمع موضوع بيحكي عن المهر بحكي الحمدلله الي ما عنا من هالحكي ، و انا هون بقصد الشركس و عشان التوضيح اكثر فإحنا المهر و المؤخر عنا محدد مسبقاً من الجمعية الشركسية ، يعني المهر عنا 150 دينار فقط لا غير و يلي بطلب اكثر من هيك بيلتعن اساسه و المؤخر 300 دينار و مع هيك برجع بحكي الحمدلله امورنا ماشية و ما عنا نسب طلاق عالية الحمدلله

]]> By: cool123 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-650 cool123 Wed, 09 May 2007 12:54:56 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-650 dude wher do u work? dude wher do u work?

]]> By: Mariam Ayyash http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-651 Mariam Ayyash Wed, 09 May 2007 13:11:51 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-651 bass i thought el sharkas moslemeen? i dont know if setting a predefined amount works, but u know what? setting a ceiling "may" work, bass we all know the story of Omar ben El khattab who tried to advice people to reduce el maher, and a woman jumped up by saying that Allah doesnt say that "qintar thahab" ... verse, and then Omar said, Omar is wrong and the woman is right, so we know we cant even set a high limit that easy, and im not sure it would work either bass i thought el sharkas moslemeen?
i dont know if setting a predefined amount works, but u know what? setting a ceiling “may” work, bass we all know the story of Omar ben El khattab who tried to advice people to reduce el maher, and a woman jumped up by saying that Allah doesnt say that “qintar thahab” … verse, and then Omar said, Omar is wrong and the woman is right, so we know we cant even set a high limit that easy, and im not sure it would work either

]]> By: Who-sane http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-653 Who-sane Wed, 09 May 2007 17:34:55 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-653 <b>Mariam</b>: that's very thoughtful, to send them an article with some islamic reference. but I'll pass :) <b>Mazz</b>: Absolutely. The parents do it thinking they're safeguarding their daughter's future. But what they don't know is that by doing this they are forcing her to live with someone she'll most probably never love, and hence the adultery, polygamy and other social issues. Not sure if elopement will work with them, the local cummunity here is pretty small, and they'll be living as outcasts if they eloped. <b>Amal</b>: Yeah, life is getting more competitive, and it's hard for young men who are looking for stability. <b>Na3ouri</b>: Exaxctly! Parents are treating their daughters as merchandise. But I'm getting confused: are you na3ouri or sharkasi? <b>cool123</b>: I work for a government organization, but how's that relevant? Mariam: that’s very thoughtful, to send them an article with some islamic reference. but I’ll pass :)

Mazz: Absolutely. The parents do it thinking they’re safeguarding their daughter’s future. But what they don’t know is that by doing this they are forcing her to live with someone she’ll most probably never love, and hence the adultery, polygamy and other social issues. Not sure if elopement will work with them, the local cummunity here is pretty small, and they’ll be living as outcasts if they eloped.

Amal: Yeah, life is getting more competitive, and it’s hard for young men who are looking for stability.

Na3ouri: Exaxctly! Parents are treating their daughters as merchandise. But I’m getting confused: are you na3ouri or sharkasi?

cool123: I work for a government organization, but how’s that relevant?

]]> By: Nimir (bel 3arabee Tiger) http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-654 Nimir (bel 3arabee Tiger) Wed, 09 May 2007 19:52:58 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-654 na3ooori bas ana ba3raf bardoo el sharkas ba36oosh elaa la sharkasee wela la2 ???? na3ooori bas ana ba3raf bardoo el sharkas ba36oosh elaa la sharkasee wela la2 ????

]]> By: Mohanned http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-655 Mohanned Thu, 10 May 2007 00:44:03 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-655 Nimir, E7na el sal6eyeh a7'athna menhom 7'awa ba3ed ma kataloona :lol: Nimir,
E7na el sal6eyeh a7′athna menhom 7′awa ba3ed ma kataloona :lol:

]]> By: Nimir (bel 3arabee Tiger) http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-656 Nimir (bel 3arabee Tiger) Thu, 10 May 2007 00:47:39 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-656 loooooooooooooooooooooooool bebalash kaman men '3air 7ata el 150 neeeerah loooooooooooooooooooooooool

bebalash kaman men ‘3air 7ata el 150 neeeerah

]]> By: Na3ouri http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-657 Na3ouri Fri, 11 May 2007 17:47:24 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-657 <b>Who-sane</b> انا شركسي ناعوري :) <b>Nimir</b> في ناس بيعطوا و ناس لأ <b>Mohanned</b> الله محييك يا سيدي انت الخير و البركة ابو العربيات بس اغلبك ممكن تشرحلي شو قصدو نمر لما حكا انو حتى ببلاش بدون الـ 150 نيرة ؟!؟ Who-sane
انا شركسي ناعوري :)

Nimir
في ناس بيعطوا و ناس لأ

Mohanned
الله محييك يا سيدي
انت الخير و البركة ابو العربيات
بس اغلبك ممكن تشرحلي شو قصدو نمر لما حكا انو حتى ببلاش بدون الـ 150 نيرة ؟!؟

]]> By: Mohanned http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-658 Mohanned Fri, 11 May 2007 21:12:25 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-658 Wallahe ya na3oori athon enno hath called sarcasm, ya3ni el biss el kbeer ga3ed begool aah bejawzooko o bebalash kman, bas hoo gasdo enno ygool Bas balash yjawzooko ba3ed ma katalooko, 3alamtoo 3lena ya ostaz na3oori, bas bardo magbooleh :lol: Wallahe ya na3oori athon enno hath called sarcasm, ya3ni el biss el kbeer ga3ed begool aah bejawzooko o bebalash kman, bas hoo gasdo enno ygool Bas balash yjawzooko ba3ed ma katalooko, 3alamtoo 3lena ya ostaz na3oori, bas bardo magbooleh :lol:

]]> By: Nimir(bel 3arabee Tiger) http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-659 Nimir(bel 3arabee Tiger) Fri, 11 May 2007 22:41:39 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-659 eh hada na3ouri ze3el ya zalameh 7agak 3alaina eh hada na3ouri ze3el ya zalameh 7agak 3alaina

]]> By: Na3ouri http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-670 Na3ouri Sun, 13 May 2007 06:18:06 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-670 <b>Mohanned , Nimer</b> الواحد ما بزعل من حبايبه بالعكس استاذ نمر لا زعلان ولا على بالي انا بس كنت حابب افهم شو المقصود ، يعني لا تفسرها انو ناعوري زعلان :) و شكراً استاذ عربيات عالتوضيح و عجبتني البس الكبير .. لول :p بعدين تعال جاي احنا ما بدنا ننسى هذي المشكلة ، يعني يلي انضرب انضرب و يلي انفشخ انفشخ انسى يا معلم احنا اولاد اليوم ترجعوا تهاوشوا ؟؟ :D Mohanned , Nimer

الواحد ما بزعل من حبايبه بالعكس استاذ نمر لا زعلان ولا على بالي انا بس كنت حابب افهم شو المقصود ، يعني لا تفسرها انو ناعوري زعلان :)
و شكراً استاذ عربيات عالتوضيح و عجبتني البس الكبير .. لول :p
بعدين تعال جاي احنا ما بدنا ننسى هذي المشكلة ، يعني يلي انضرب انضرب و يلي انفشخ انفشخ انسى يا معلم احنا اولاد اليوم

ترجعوا تهاوشوا ؟؟ :D

]]> By: شركسي عمان http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-2851 شركسي عمان Mon, 29 Oct 2007 21:50:49 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-2851 mar7ba el gamee3 bde 2salem 3leko fe hal site el 7elo mar7ba el gamee3 bde 2salem 3leko fe hal site el 7elo

]]> By: Retro Jordans http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-2855 Retro Jordans Fri, 02 Nov 2007 21:14:36 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2007/05/08/amal-the-bitter-hope/#comment-2855 I wonder how much money Jordan has made from his shoe line? Probably in the billions! I wonder how much money Jordan has made from his shoe line? Probably in the billions!

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