Comments on: Childbirth Drama http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/ Thu, 20 Nov 2008 08:48:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: kinzi http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2927 kinzi Thu, 03 Jan 2008 09:31:28 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2927 Good to have you back writing, even if it is under such tragically topical auspices.That kidnapping broke my mommy-heart, and after all those other heart-wrenching stories, I am ready for some Chicken Soup for a Mother's Soul. Good to have you back writing, even if it is under such tragically topical auspices.That kidnapping broke my mommy-heart, and after all those other heart-wrenching stories, I am ready for some Chicken Soup for a Mother’s Soul.

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]]> By: Who-sane http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2929 Who-sane Thu, 03 Jan 2008 10:44:09 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2929 Thank you Kinzi! It really has been a while! Thank you Kinzi! It really has been a while!

]]> By: wonders http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2930 wonders Thu, 03 Jan 2008 10:55:46 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2930 wallah ahlen o sahlen :) it is REALLY sad. when my mom was here begining of Dec she told me about another infant abduction story, it was solved when the husband of the abductee reported his wife who had been pretending to be pregnant for 9 months and one day came back in the afternoon after she allegedly gave birth! wallah ahlen o sahlen :)

it is REALLY sad. when my mom was here begining of Dec she told me about another infant abduction story, it was solved when the husband of the abductee reported his wife who had been pretending to be pregnant for 9 months and one day came back in the afternoon after she allegedly gave birth!

]]> By: Who-sane http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2931 Who-sane Thu, 03 Jan 2008 11:15:00 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2931 thank you wonders! now that's a sad story there ... I wonder how she managed to convince her husband for 9 whole months that she was pregnant!! thank you wonders! now that’s a sad story there … I wonder how she managed to convince her husband for 9 whole months that she was pregnant!!

]]> By: 7aki Fadi http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2932 7aki Fadi Thu, 03 Jan 2008 16:15:41 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2932 I would lose my mind if anybody abudcuted little 7aki. People who do it have something wrong up there. Happy new year Mr. Who-Sane :D . I would lose my mind if anybody abudcuted little 7aki. People who do it have something wrong up there.

Happy new year Mr. Who-Sane :D .

]]> By: Mariam Ayyash http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2933 Mariam Ayyash Fri, 04 Jan 2008 03:39:41 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2933 barkee law inno we dont have honor crimes no one would feel the urge to dump a baby? i dont see things as surprising, it was coming for sure, this is what happens when u fix a mistake with... another mistake, and u keep doing it people who abduct babies are theives, the least thing that a theif deserves is ten2ata3 eedo! i dont thing jail in jordan is that terrible, not like that in the US, and they both dont solve any issue! would leave a theif with a murderer? they will teach each other! 3ala zekker theif and murderer, khothlak hal nokteh: wa7ad 7aramee w wa7ad nethel tel3oo ma3 ba3ad 3al bass, el 7aramee begool lal nethel a3almak el 7armaneh et3allemni el nathaleh? gallo ok, garrab el 7arami 3ala wa7deh wagfeh w latash el jozdan men el shanta w 7atto fee jeibto 3al sokkeit men gheir mat7ess, w gal lal nethel, heik el 7armaneh, shofet keef? gallo, a3almak el nathale? gallo ah, sar ysarrekh: 7arameeeeeeeeee! barkee law inno we dont have honor crimes no one would feel the urge to dump a baby? i dont see things as surprising, it was coming for sure, this is what happens when u fix a mistake with… another mistake, and u keep doing it
people who abduct babies are theives, the least thing that a theif deserves is ten2ata3 eedo! i dont thing jail in jordan is that terrible, not like that in the US, and they both dont solve any issue! would leave a theif with a murderer? they will teach each other!
3ala zekker theif and murderer, khothlak hal nokteh:
wa7ad 7aramee w wa7ad nethel tel3oo ma3 ba3ad 3al bass, el 7aramee begool lal nethel a3almak el 7armaneh et3allemni el nathaleh? gallo ok, garrab el 7arami 3ala wa7deh wagfeh w latash el jozdan men el shanta w 7atto fee jeibto 3al sokkeit men gheir mat7ess, w gal lal nethel, heik el 7armaneh, shofet keef? gallo, a3almak el nathale? gallo ah, sar ysarrekh: 7arameeeeeeeeee!

]]> By: sharkooseh http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2934 sharkooseh Fri, 04 Jan 2008 11:12:37 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2934 I like ur way talking about this,,, but what the hell with 3 months to 3 years?! for me, if someone kidnapped my child 30 years wont be enough. I like ur way talking about this,,,
but what the hell with 3 months to 3 years?! for me, if someone kidnapped my child 30 years wont be enough.

]]> By: KJ http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2936 KJ Fri, 04 Jan 2008 15:18:21 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2936 Happy new year my friend. I am surprised with the sentence, 6 months for kidnapping or dumping a child? This is the most ridiculous thing I have heard. The rule is simple: If you take a life away then your life is to be taken. Happy new year my friend.

I am surprised with the sentence, 6 months for kidnapping or dumping a child? This is the most ridiculous thing I have heard.

The rule is simple: If you take a life away then your life is to be taken.

]]> By: A mother http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2937 A mother Fri, 04 Jan 2008 17:47:20 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2937 Well.. You talked about kidnappers but what about the (so-called) parents who throw their kids away, some with the clear intention and wish for these babies to die. A problem isn't it? A huge one I believe. We got stuck... what should we do? abviously returned the babies to their undervingly called parents would be the worst thing to do. they lost their maternal rights the minutes they thought of throwing the baby away. But this is what happens. And do you think they get checked later on to see if they care for the baby or not? I don't think so.. There is no social services that do home checks in Jordan, as I know. So... why not giving the baby to couples who can't have kids. Not adoption, foster parents, host parents whatchamacallit parents. I know "adoption" is a sensitive word. But I'm sure some couples who were not blessed with children of their own would treat the baby 100 times better than his biological "parents". So the real issue here is not why these babies get dumped.. It is about what's gonna happened to them later on... which for the time being is nothing but being with unthankful parents with the label of "eben/bent haram"... So sad Well..
You talked about kidnappers but what about the (so-called) parents who throw their kids away, some with the clear intention and wish for these babies to die.
A problem isn’t it? A huge one I believe.
We got stuck… what should we do? abviously returned the babies to their undervingly called parents would be the worst thing to do. they lost their maternal rights the minutes they thought of throwing the baby away. But this is what happens. And do you think they get checked later on to see if they care for the baby or not? I don’t think so.. There is no social services that do home checks in Jordan, as I know.
So… why not giving the baby to couples who can’t have kids. Not adoption, foster parents, host parents whatchamacallit parents. I know “adoption” is a sensitive word. But I’m sure some couples who were not blessed with children of their own would treat the baby 100 times better than his biological “parents”.
So the real issue here is not why these babies get dumped.. It is about what’s gonna happened to them later on… which for the time being is nothing but being with unthankful parents with the label of “eben/bent haram”…
So sad

]]> By: Mohanned http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2939 Mohanned Sat, 05 Jan 2008 17:01:33 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2939 Welcome back homie! I don't know, but sometimes I feel that humans are evil by nature(Remember qabeel and habeel, how qabeel killed his brother)... The thought of loosing one's child is just beyond what I can imagine, but in this day and age I think it is just business as usual.. Salamz.. Welcome back homie!
I don’t know, but sometimes I feel that humans are evil by nature(Remember qabeel and habeel, how qabeel killed his brother)…

The thought of loosing one’s child is just beyond what I can imagine, but in this day and age I think it is just business as usual..

Salamz..

]]> By: Who-sane http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2941 Who-sane Sun, 06 Jan 2008 13:03:39 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2941 7aki fadi: absolutely, it's a horrendous act that should receive a maximum prison sentence! Happy new year to you too :) Mariam: you do have a point, but what's the solution? they can't execute babies' thieves and they can't cut off their hands, so should the authorities let them roam freely in the streets? I say lock them up for at least 20 years, that should teach the others not to even think about it. and LOL at the joke!! sharkooseh: thanks ... that's exactly my point, the sentence seemed too lenient! KJ: Same to you buddy! :-) A mother: It's really in God's hands what is going to happen to these babies, but I guess we all agree on our expectations that, unless the baby is really lucky, then it's a gloomy future that is awaiting him/her. And yes, the problem is deep rooted within our society: the fear of honor killings to start with, sexual ignorance and prohibiting abortion surgeries all lead desperate terrified mothers to think throwing their babies is the safest and easiest way. Mohanned: thanks man and a happy new year to you! :) 7aki fadi: absolutely, it’s a horrendous act that should receive a maximum prison sentence! Happy new year to you too :)

Mariam: you do have a point, but what’s the solution? they can’t execute babies’ thieves and they can’t cut off their hands, so should the authorities let them roam freely in the streets? I say lock them up for at least 20 years, that should teach the others not to even think about it. and LOL at the joke!!

sharkooseh: thanks … that’s exactly my point, the sentence seemed too lenient!

KJ: Same to you buddy! :-)

A mother: It’s really in God’s hands what is going to happen to these babies, but I guess we all agree on our expectations that, unless the baby is really lucky, then it’s a gloomy future that is awaiting him/her. And yes, the problem is deep rooted within our society: the fear of honor killings to start with, sexual ignorance and prohibiting abortion surgeries all lead desperate terrified mothers to think throwing their babies is the safest and easiest way.

Mohanned: thanks man and a happy new year to you! :)

]]> By: A mother http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2948 A mother Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:25:23 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2948 Well, with regard to abortion I do believe it should be completely banned... Since when is it allowed for man/woman to play God. Even if the baby resulted from out of wedlock relations, it should not be allowed. About mothers throwing their babies away it has happened since the age of the pharoes, but to throw the baby with the intention of him dying either slowly in the cold or rapidly as in the case of the girl who threw her baby in the sewage that is something new. They used to leave babies on the doorstep of a mosque or a hospital, so what happened? Even with unplanned pregnancy maternal love existed up until now. I really wonder why did it seize to exist?!!! Well, with regard to abortion I do believe it should be completely banned… Since when is it allowed for man/woman to play God.
Even if the baby resulted from out of wedlock relations, it should not be allowed.
About mothers throwing their babies away it has happened since the age of the pharoes, but to throw the baby with the intention of him dying either slowly in the cold or rapidly as in the case of the girl who threw her baby in the sewage that is something new.
They used to leave babies on the doorstep of a mosque or a hospital, so what happened?
Even with unplanned pregnancy maternal love existed up until now.
I really wonder why did it seize to exist?!!!

]]> By: Who-sane http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2955 Who-sane Tue, 08 Jan 2008 07:16:40 +0000 http://www.who-sane.com/2008/01/03/childbirth-drama/#comment-2955 A mother: I also think abortion should not be allowed ... but to these people, they're only left with two options really: 1- take the risk of delivering the baby on their own and then getting rid of it by dumping it in the sewage/under a bridge/inside a bathroom? ... OR ... 2- get a safe bortion? I'm guessing you'd opt for the latter? You raised another valid point, is that the main intention of doing that is to kill the baby, and not to just to get rid of it by leaving it on someone else's door steps. I have a personal experience with this. I'll post about it today. A mother: I also think abortion should not be allowed … but to these people, they’re only left with two options really:

1- take the risk of delivering the baby on their own and then getting rid of it by dumping it in the sewage/under a bridge/inside a bathroom?

… OR …

2- get a safe bortion?

I’m guessing you’d opt for the latter?

You raised another valid point, is that the main intention of doing that is to kill the baby, and not to just to get rid of it by leaving it on someone else’s door steps. I have a personal experience with this. I’ll post about it today.

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